I knew I hate being away from home. I found out this morning that my aunts boyfriend, we call him uncle, was in a boating accident last night. They have him in a forced coma right now. My aunt said that his stomach was gashed open and when he was pulled out of the water his insides were out. He also had a laceration on his liver they were able to repair but are watching it for a slow leak. They can't close up any of his wounds because of the chance of infection, since it happened in a river. She said they have the opened spots stuffed with antibiotic pillows. He severed his arm. They were able to use blood vessels from his leg to reconnect the blood flow and save it but the nerves were severed and the doctor said as of right now he will only have limited movement. Maybe no feeling in his hands. Which there goes his passion. He is a carpenter and loves it. He did some household projects for my mom and grandpa for free. Just the kinda guy he is. He also had the flesh on his foot cut and stripped down to the bone from midpoint to his toes.
I met him just last April, before my accident while I was in Ky. When SueEllen broke her arm, he was the one who offered to get her to her appts since I didn't know the area well. At the orthopedics office he was in the floor, acting a fool with her, but had her laughing and calmed down. Didn't care that people were staring like he was an idiot. And in the room waiting for the doctor he kept her entertained with various items from the drawers. It was funny cause the doctor walked in just as they were playing with a tape measurer and Sue said "uh-oh". He held her hand while they had to wrap and set her arm. He looked more in pain than she did. I thought he was gonna cry. And when it was over he looked at her and said that deserves some nuggets. Took her to McDonalds and bought her a toy on the way home. Really sweet guy, I can't believe this has happened. I am waiting to hear more. They are gonna allow him to wake up after his next surgery in three days and they close the wounds. I hope and pray he is gonna be allright. I feel like I took for granted his kindness even though I don't know him that well. And maybe I shoulda thanked him a bit more. If others could pray as well I would appriciate it.

The Part of You That No One Sees

You are powerful, passionate, and dominant. You have a vision of how things should be, and you do your best to make things happen. People rely on you for your strength. You are a rock to many. Underneath it all, you aren't so sure about your passions. So many ideas spark your interest, it is hard for you to get behind a select few. However, you see indecision as a sign of weakness. So you pursue your goals full force - no matter how foolish they turn out to be.

I passed on a lot of my answers.. like the one calling me easy and the other one saying a I was a bitch. But this one rang really true. Nice that you can figure yourself out from a convienent little quiz!

Your Mind is NC-17 Rated

You're mind is so filthy... you should should be washing every part of you out with soap. If your thoughts can go dirty, they do. Almost everything is NC-17 to you!

My friend always said my mind has a permanent residency in the gutter...

So. Went to the pool for a few hours yesterday with Sue. Had fun! Came home and called up the baby's uncle and told him he could bring him home. Well who's that I hear in the background. Rick. See Rick is this Adonis of a man. And I hear him say, I'll ride along. Wow. So Rick is coming here. Hmm... Do I go put on some makeup? Do I grab a dress. Well my face looks pretty good after coming out of the sun. Nice and glowing, no need for makeup. And my blue jeans with the teeshirt somewhat wet from my bathing suit top looks kinda revealing. I think I will keep them on. So how do I impress this guy? I know! The baby's uncle always talks about how good my chicken is and I have to cook dinner anyways. So I whip up the quickest batch of batter and get the chicken frying. 15 mins later they are there, the house smells divine. We are talking and laughing, about the kids, then about disatrous nights out. Then about when am I going to be able to go out. Since my backs messed up and all. So I am thinking, wow this is going good. I think he is hinting at something. And then... what's that smell? OMG I WAS COOKING SOMETHING!!! Yup! I have never seen blacker chicken, or heard louder smoke alarms. See our place has a total of six fire alarms. And once the one in the hallway next to the kitchen goes off, ALL of them are set to go off. Pretty nifty if your sleeping upstairs and a fire breaks out downstairs. You are warned before the smoke even makes it up the next floor. Bad if you just happen to burn something cooking. SO it went like this. I am pulling the chicken off the burner. Kid's uncle putting a towel over the hallway alarm, which thankfully stopped all of them. Sue laughing. The baby starts crying. Rick comforting the baby. I couldn't help but laugh too. And it was contagious. But then I realise, I havn't been to the store yet and I just burnt the last thing I had to make for dinner. So darn. Well they leave. I make some pb and j for Sue. But their uncle came back about 20 mins later with dinner. Awww how sweet. Before he left, he made the comment of try not to burn the house down, miss ya'll. I smacked him! He started laughing and said to mark chicken off as the only thing I could cook. I have a feeling I am going to hear about this one for a long time!!! Might replace the time I walked into a wall. But I guess all in all it was funny. A definite "Alli" moment. Nice icebreaker. huh?

I havn't been able to come on much. A real shocker, I have had things going on. Nothing too exciting this week although I did have a lil realization/meltdown. I had to go get some papers notarized. So I chose good ole Yocums, where me and some friends used to go look at bikes and racing accessories. SO I am waiting and the man comes out and says can I help ya ma'am. I immiediately look around trying to find the ma'am. He couldnt mean me? When did I become a ma'am. . God Damn, he don't look that much younger than me even!! I bet he was 20 or so and calling me ma'am. SO of course my female mind thinks wow I must look old. I mean no I dont. I am only 21. I am pretty good lookin I think. Then it dawns on me. I am standing here digging in my giant bag for my id copy with a double stroller beside me. Yeah I guess I did look like a ma'am. And when the hell did I get a mom purse??? I always swore I would never carry a bag bigger than my butt and this thing is almost triple the size! I remember my grandmothers giant, blue leather sack. That thing had everything in it. And here I am with my pink, camo canvas tote holding everything from condoms to diapers. Hmm I bet those things are expired by now...
I am waiting for my manny (hehe) to come pick up my son around 3 so I can take Sue to the pool!!! I can't wait to get some sun! Oh the manny JJ's uncle and they share the same birthday and so far Ira has been the only one to ever watch him and keep him overnight without complaining. SO needless to say I love him.
I have already been flirting!!! I need to stop. Since I was 13 I have only been single six months out of my life. I am determined more than ever to stay single!!!!!! I want so badly to experience living on my own, being on my own. I guess flirting is harmless though. But this is turning out to be a whole lotta nothin'.
Anyone ever see that movie with Fred Savage and Howie Mandell, Little Monsters? I watched it yesterday with Suzy and we both loved it! Watching Dead Silence tonight, without her though! Blah blah blah...